It’s been a full month of school for Natalie and she’s been doing fantastic. So fantastic that I have to document this. I am so excited to see what else she does. There have been some pretty incredible changes going on with Natalie. She has gone through several years of physical therapy for gross motor issues but since she’s started school she has been running, even jumping! (she has never jumped off of say.. a step, since..well never) and picking up those knees like a champ! She keeps up with her big brother and classmates, too! She moves like a 5 year old now. The amount of changes in her physical abilities has skyrocketed in only a month of elementary school. There’s something about that new title of “kindergartner” that seems to be a big force for her. It was something that I never expected. I survived the first week with Natalie in school I threw all caution to the wind and sort of just let it go. I stopped worrying about her so much. I stopped comparing her to James. I stopped expecting something bad to happen. I stopped. Instead, I starting changing how my thought process was going with our new adventure…
She’s in good hands.
Indeed this kid is. She’s in perfectly good capable hands. During her first month of school, she has endured a whole lot. And every incident, illness, and upset moment involved someone else to protect her. I won’t lie and say that a tiny part of me wanted to be there to take over the situation(s) instead. But if I keep doing that she’ll never grow up. She’ll never get to experience life away from mom’s shadow. A huge disservice to her if I immediately jump in every moment, bad or good.
For the first month of school Natalie has successfully (and supremely) handled a raging UTI (poor kid..oy), a punch to the chest by a fellow classmate, a classmate’s birthday party, a nasty cold (while taking her 1st major test of the year where she placed VERY high!!), and stomach virus. There are a few things more we can take from this..
Yes. Natalie has half of a heart and by technical standards, she is a little delicate under that skin. Her heart is without a right side, but the left side is so strong! It amazes me every single day how well she copes. I call this time of her post-Fontan life “the prime”. It really is the prime of her life in regards to how strong she really is. And I think that this prime time will last a long time. Is it okay to get a punch to the chest? Absolutely not. Thankfully, she took quite a blow but was completely fine. Phew. As a result, the parents were notified and it seems like this boy has calmed down. Kindergartners: I just don’t see how a teacher can handle 20 of ’em all at once.
2 days after the incident, I was walking Natalie to school on a nice cool morning, with James behind us. She says… “You know, my teacher told the class about my special heart. She told them to be careful with me and to never push or punch me. Then I showed them my scars.”
Luckily I was wearing sunglasses that morning to hide my tears behind them.
Totally out of the blue she tells me this. I told her how proud I was of her and I asked her how she felt about showing her scars and the teacher telling the whole class about her heart. “Pretty good” she says. Pretty good indeed Natalie. Since the incident with the chest punch, no one touches her unless it involves a hug, a tap on the head for “duck, duck, goose”, or hand holding.
Here are some more recent photos of the Queen with her brother and some very special friends at a Broncos game!! enjoy ; )