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8 days ago..

Ahhh! So sorry for the lack of updates. Broken promises. Broken plans. Yikes. I intended to update this blog for every day in August. I had a little sliver of doubt at the beginning of the month. Once I got going, blogging everyday, I started to see our calendar fill up. Some days with plans oozing out of the huge box with that day and it’s little ‘ol number. The sliver of doubt began when I saw the beginning of school for Natalie, appointments, and the start of school. School- for everyone! Come one! Come all!

Our household currently houses 4 occupants and 4 students. Check us out! eehhh? Right??

But most importantly, our dear Natalie began the big K on Monday. This year, the school did a “soft start” where each child could pick either that Monday or Tuesday to begin class and then having Wednesday as the first day of a full class. If I heard right, I think there are about 21 students in her class. For our county’s standards that’s not too shabby.

But again MOST importantly, how did she do?

Fantastically! That’s how. She had a quick moment this morning where she asked, “Mommy, do I really have to go to school today? I’m so tired.” I think we all understand the exhaustion in that question. Her brother, who is in 1st grade, asked that question quite a few times during his entire kindergarten year. I’m kind of shocked that she waited to ask all the way on a Friday morning. Tuesday was usually her brother’s day to ask me that question.

The school has been pretty awesome about keeping the teachers in the loop about Natalie’s health plan. In fact, that’s another shocker for me, because I’m so new to this whole kid-in-school-all-day-with-heart-condition-thing. Brand new. She had a year of preschool but by the time I got home from dropping her off it was time to pick her up. And that was only 3-4 days a week. This time, it’s real. Like for real, for real. The school has been very good about taking care of Natalie so far. The only small issue we’ve had was some heat exhaustion the other day, but even I failed to see how hot it really was outside. Throw into the mix 3 recesses (2 of which I didn’t know about) and well, you get a little bit of heat exhaustion. She fell ill by the end of Wednesday, but once I pumped her full of even more water and a snack she was feeling normal again. The school didn’t do anything wrong. They kept supplying her with water and she kept downing it. When her teacher would ask, “Natalie are you okay?” several times, Natalie (just like her mom) would brush it off and just say “I’m fine”. She even looked fine, until we started our walk home.

Now we know to cut her recess time down a little bit on hot days. The 3rd recess is being dropped off soon so that won’t matter. It’s the lunch recess that’s triggering, I think, the biggest problem. For days like today, where the heat is just too much, Natalie will get to spend it inside either with the teacher or at the office, reading, coloring, and hamming it up with the faculty.

Wanna see some photos? Oh you know that’s why you’re here:

Natalie with her big brother! I really need to compare these 2 to last years’ photos. My god.

And there they go… off to new adventures.. off to experience the school life. A life of slightly crappy school lunches, optimistic dread, the sound of bells, the smell of pencils, glue sticks, and copied paper. Just like last year, the new students have the “deer caught in headlights” look. Natalie was smiling and then waved after I took this photo. Ham. Pure ham.

Hopkins.

The early morning of Monday, October 1st, 2007 was one full of so many raw emotions. We had just left the operating room, where we watched our 5 month old daughter scream and cry with a small mask over her nose and mouth, but then drift off from the anesthesia. Tears freely falling, our hands sweaty with anxiety, our bodies shaking, and the sadness of having to watch our daughter being forced into a deep sleep for the 2nd time in a week. It was so much.. too much..to take in.

We collapsed into 2 seats in the narrow hall of a waiting room while a surgeon and his team prepared to open up our infant’s chest for the 1st time. No amount of preparation prepared us for this day. For this moment. But it was necessary and we never questioned why were going through this.

We had spent the evening prior bathing her and absorbing her smiles and giggles like sponges. We watched her splash and kick those chunky feet. Oh she smelled so good when we laid her down for bedtime. I still love sniffing her head.

In the waiting area, we started to feel claustrophobic. I kept thinking of the smell of her hair. She still smelled good when she was laying on the operating table.  We went and grabbed something to drink and made way for our van. The novelty of our van’s DVD player was still new so we watched “Little Miss Sunshine” with our seats propped all the way back. I had to re-watch the movie a year or so later. I remembered nothing about it because all I could think about was Natalie. We both equate that movie with Natalie’s first open heart surgery.

Around 4pm we were called and told to come back to the building. We were very close since we never left the parking garage. They were finished! We rushed back to the waiting room and within about a minute or so we heard the squeaky wheels of a metal crib being wheeled from the OR. I jumped out my small chair. I almost didn’t recognize her.. she was so pink and milky-white. She looked like Snow White with blonde hair. It’s hard to not see the tubes and wires and rows of medications attached to your child, but I spent several moments just staring at her pink baby toes and ruby red lips. I had never seen her look so healthy since.. never. The crowd of people taking care of her followed her metal crib down the hall and behind them was the surgeon.

The man himself- Dr. Luca Vricella comes to talk to us. He told us how perfect everything went. While he spoke to us he teared up and then hugged my husband! I wish I had gotten a hug but I just stood there crying and attempting to smile. I wanted to smile but I was just so full of emotions. It’s all so bittersweet..that moment. Bitter because you have no clue what the recovery will be like for your infant. You have no clue what to expect. So sweet because this man just saved our daughter’s life and he’s standing right there with us and taking in this joyous moment with us. He oozed compassion. There’s a 4 minute video below which features Dr. Vricella and his heart transplant patient Olivia. It’s a really touching story.. he oozes compassion and hope in this video and he’s exactly like that when standing in front of you..

In the summer of 2008, ABC featured a 7 episode documentary titled “Hopkins”. It’s by the same creator of today’s “NY Med” Terrence Wrong. They featured our hero Dr. Vricella and just as shockingly, our pediatric cardiologist Dr. Ravekes! I remember shouting at the screen “OHMYGOD IT’S OUR DOCTOR YOU GUYS!!”  when his face was there on our tv set. We saw Dr. Ravekes every six months right up until about a week or so before we moved here to Colorado in April of 2009. He also took great care of Natalie before her surgeries, keeping a really close eye on her when we’d take her for weekly weight checks at Johns Hopkins. We had the chance to mention the show to Dr. Ravekes and he was so cool about it.

And now Dr. Vricella is John Hopkins’ Director of Pediatric Cardiac Surgery! Totally not surprised. And it looks like our cardiologist is still there.

Those men…. that hospital… it couldn’t have gotten better. We were lucky to live where we did at the time because Natalie had the greatest minds in the world caring for her. What more could a Queen need…

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January 13th, 2010.. surgical log

Day 2.. January 13th, 2010

“I’m writing this while I watch you peacefully sleep on 1-13-2010. I day (almost 24 hours) after your Fontan operation. You slept more at 5 months of age with your Glenn that shocks me now with your age of 2 1/2 and having such a complicated operation. You fight your sleep more now. With your Glenn Shunt you did AMAZING (underlined). I remember MANY of your wires coming out by Wednesday, the 3rd day of recovery. Then on Thursday your 2 drainage tubes came out successfully. I wish I hadn’t seen them do it because you were in so much pain 😦 But like always you handled it like a champ.”

post op medications….

“Zantac, Lasix, Morphine, Heparin, Tylenol, Albumin”

still Day 2..2nd entry of 1-13-2010

“You are AMAZING my dear!! Truly amazing. As of now at your age, you have no idea how strong and feisty you are. At home your feistiness would frustrate me, but that’s now what’s going to get you home faster. Your nurses are awesome. They are so good with you. Many of your responses to their questions is “NO” and “ALL DONE!!” You also told me today that you will punch me. Honestly, anything that makes you feel better then do it. You came off of the ventilator at about 6:45pm yesterday. They tried sooner but you were so upset that you held your breath! We’re almost 24 hours post-op and you are (like I just knew) “wowing” everyone with how quickly you’re recovering. You do say “huggie Mommy huggie!!” often for me to hold you and that makes me so sad. But I know that in a few days, your wish will come true. Right now at 2:30pm 1/13/10 you are sleeping peacefully to the sounds of Cinderella. Thank god you’re sleeping because last night you barely slept at all.”

buttons, blogs, and stuff.

Since this new adventure is still under construction over here at Queen of Hearts, I wanted to take a minute to ask if there is anyone coming across this blog that would like for me to include a blog button? I’d like to keep this blog nice and organized but there’s nothing more awesome than seeing little photos with cute smiling faces, beautiful babies, and resources. Please comment if you have a button and a link for me to find it. Or if you’d just like for me to include your blog link! Thanks so much!

The official launch of this blog will be August 1st! YAY!

I’ll be posting everyday for the month of August. No trophy necessary. I’m pretty excited to get this going. I’m excited I’m excited I am excited!